When this dynamic is operating, we’re avoiding the present. We don’t deal with the here and now and instead get lost in stories that we created about past events or we start possibly projecting negative outcomes into the future. We avoid being present because we fear that if we do stay present we won’t be able to deal with whatever feelings come up.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Say Hello,Wave Goodbye!™ Series #4
This is a a continuation of our series on achieving success. Many of us are plagued with habits that keep us from being the best that we can be in our job, our career, or in life. Say Hello,Wave Goodbye!™ is an innovative coaching approach that removes those destructive habits and allows you to move forward and gain success. This series of blogs addresses the 12 most common habits that hold you back. They are called Core Dynamics of Common Problems™, which are excerpted from my chapter in the book, Coaching for Success (2008). You’ll learn why you are stuck and how the removal of these dynamics will set you free to pursue your goals. Last time we covered Being Judgmental. This issue will cover Getting Distracted.
When this dynamic is operating, we’re avoiding the present. We don’t deal with the here and now and instead get lost in stories that we created about past events or we start possibly projecting negative outcomes into the future. We avoid being present because we fear that if we do stay present we won’t be able to deal with whatever feelings come up.
4. Getting Distracted
When this dynamic is operating, we’re avoiding the present. We don’t deal with the here and now and instead get lost in stories that we created about past events or we start possibly projecting negative outcomes into the future. We avoid being present because we fear that if we do stay present we won’t be able to deal with whatever feelings come up.
Stay tuned for #5: Lacking Self-Esteem
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